Steve parents guide

Steve Parent Guide

Agonizing to watch, this is a portrait of profound empathy and its sometimes terrible cost.

Overall C-

Netflix: A head teacher at a reform school struggles to keep his students in line while his mental health deteriorates.

Release date October 3, 2025

Violence C
Sexual Content B
Profanity D
Substance Use D

Why is Steve rated R? The MPAA rated Steve R for pervasive language, substance abuse and some sexual material.

Run Time: 93 minutes

Parent Movie Review

Steve (Cillian Murphy) is drowning. He’s the head of Stanton Wood, a reform school that opened with lofty ambitions, long since undermined by repeated budget cuts that have pared it back to the bone. Now a skeleton staff are desperately trying to manage their high risk, dangerous juvenile offenders. As Amanda (Tracey Ullman), the assistant head says, “It’s exhausting, complicated, demanding work and it’s destroying us.”

On this day in 1996, a TV documentary crew are on hand, winding up the boys whose behavior becomes even more difficult to control. Steve receives bad news about the future of the school, and finds himself putting out fires with an upset staff member, belligerent students, and a withdrawn, angry teen. On top of it all, he’s struggling with physical pain and guilt from a car accident.

It’s a good thing that Steve is only 93 minutes long because I don’t think I could take more of the emotional anguish that bleeds through the screen. I come from a family of teachers and I know that teachers give their hearts to the kids they teach and routinely go above and beyond to help their students develop skills or find the social supports their families need. But none of my family members taught in a school like Stanton Wood. It’s both inspiring and depressing to watch as Steve, Amanda, and their colleagues manifest profound empathy for and patience with their volatile, combustible students, while receiving so little support as they burn out under the strain.

Steve is many things: a look at the complex personalities of violent young criminals, an honest examination of the cost of working with them in an underfunded system, and a critique of a society that leaves its social first responders to flounder without adequate supports. As the film shows the attempted suicide by drowning of a student, it also shows how the stresses of Steve’s job are a form of slow-motion suicide for him as he drowns in the agony that surrounds him and numbs his pain in drugs and alcohol. It’s excruciating to watch.

Given the story, negative content is not surprising, and there is plenty of it. Violence on screen consists mainly of physical fights, although there is the aforementioned attempted suicide, and frequent discussion of past criminal assaults. There are also several depictions of drug use by students, and most alarmingly, by a teacher on duty who is drinking alcohol, popping unidentified pain pills, and drinking concentrated oxycodone. Profanity is definitely an issue, with over 117 sexual expletives alone. The Restricted rating is fully merited.

The negative content is high and the film’s themes are very dark, but the story is humanized by its astounding cast. Cillian Murphy once again confirms his place in the acting world’s top tier, giving us a Steve whose sincere love for his students makes him profoundly sympathetic despite his addictions, which have near-catastrophic results. The movie doesn’t gloss over his failures in providing duty of care, but we understand that this is a man who has given his all and has nothing left. The other teachers are well portrayed as are the boys whose gifts and devastating weaknesses are brought to fully-dimensional life. This is a painful film, but it’s also a real one. Watch it at your own risk.

Directed by Tim Mielants. Starring Cillian Murphy, Tracey Ullman, Jay Lycurgo. Running time: 93 minutes. Theatrical release October 3, 2025. Updated

Steve
Rating & Content Info

Why is Steve rated R? Steve is rated R by the MPAA for pervasive language, substance abuse and some sexual material.

Violence: There’s mention of someone urinating in another student’s drink. A teen says that another student licked his face and spat in his mouth. There’s mention of a student shouting and threatening his parents over the phone. An angry teacher threatens to strangle a school trustee. A teen spits in someone’s food. One student hits another in the head with a cafeteria tray. A teen sprays a fire extinguisher at someone. A person is punched in the face. A person threatens murder. An angry student repeatedly slams a chair into the floor as he yells. An angry teen throws rocks through glass windows. There’s mention of a car accident that injured a man and killed a girl. Past criminal offences that are mentioned on screen include stabbing a stepparent’s finger, cutting someone’s face with a bottle, and driving into a crowd. There’s an attempted suicide by drowning.
Sexual Content:   A student makes a joke about bestiality. There’s mention of a teen making inappropriate sexual comments to a female teacher. A poster shows a woman’s buttocks. A teen removes his shirt to show off his muscles. There’s innuendo about rape.
Profanity: The script contains at least 117 sexual expletives, 15 scatological curses, and a handful of minor profanities and terms of deity. Characters frequently use crude anatomical terms, particularly those that describe male and female genitals.
Alcohol / Drug Use:   A teenager is seen smoking an unnamed drug that is making him high. A teacher repeatedly takes unidentified pills while at work. A teacher drinks oxycodone concentrate while on the job. A teacher drinks alcohol and takes oxycodone on the job, and becomes intoxicated, impairing his ability to care for students. A teen lists off all the drugs he misses using. An adult smokes cigarettes.

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